My plans with the sailor fell through. We both have jobs that don’t allow for a lot of flexibility in scheduling, and he lives far. I’m willing to give it a shot, but I suspect that is a false start. I reactived my online dating account, and within 3 hours had the standard “you’re a bitch ’cause you don’t want to fuck me message. I’m trying to focus on just engaging in the activities I enjoy, and hope to meet someone that way. Sadly, there’re a lot of great guys, but not a lot of great poly guys. Somehow my being married is an issue even for self-identified poly men.